Interested in gout

you'll get there before you know it. do you have an appt set w/ the
nutritionist? wonder what different menu they'll give ya.
lori h.

Gimmie a W gimmie a H gimmie a I gimmie a N gimmie a E!!!
no, I'm sure there are plenty of people out there that regret having
the surgery and rightly so. I do feel bad for some of the problems
they have experienced, but they seem to really resent the fact that
others have had success. I don't know why I lurk there. Maybe to
better appreciate how happy I can actually be about my life.
I'm really pushing for that card, Lori! Gonna weight tomorrow
morning and I'm HOPING!!!!
gimmie a H, gimmie a U, gimmie a G!!!!
Toi ~ the best WLS Cheerleader in the W*O*R*L*D* Yay!!!!!

well the 22nd I go for my sleep study. Then the nutritionist and Ill be on my
way. I just hope and pray I will not have any problems with the sleep study
but if I do I just have to take it in stride and go forward with it. I have an
angel that will be with me and help me out so I am relieved about that. Sure
do hope this happens quickly. I am ready to get on the losing side!
WOLFIE

Finally after sitting here all day they called at 4:30 pm. I am first one on
the list on Wednesday the 23rd. I have to be at BTC at 6:00 am. I am glad I am
first then maybe I won't get bumped because it gets too late or something. I
have a feeling this is going to be the longest weekend in the history of man. I
already have everything ready to go. I should of waited to do that this weekend
so I could pass the time. Maybe the family and I can go see a movie of
something this weekend. Anyone seen any good ones lately that you would
recommend. I want to thank everyone for all their wonderful help. Everything
from snowcone machines to surgery tips. I have soaked all your knowledge up and
hope that I am ready. I feel ready and positive that this is the right thing to
do. Thanks again.
Chris B.
Surgery date 7/23/03
BTC/ Columbus OH
Dr.Stelmack
Open RNY

Hello everyone, it's a beautiful day in WI. Today I had my 3 mos. check-up
and the Dr. is very pleased with my progress and the nurse was suprised.
Offically, I have lost 70 pounds (Although the doctors digital scale seems to
weigh
about 3 pounds heavier than the Doctors scale at Curves, but hey I'm still
pleased.). I also had some blood work done to track how I'm doing with the
vitamins and I am inemic(sp). I don't see my doctor again for 3 mos. That kind
of
surprised me, but I guess you have to start tapering off the visits.
Everyone have a great weekend.
Take Care,
Julie
Open RYN 4-7-03
351/281/???

this'll pass, ami. i remember raging b/c i thought i would NEVER
enjoy food again. i vomitted more times than i can count. don't
hate me, but in hindsight, i'm glad i went through it. kept me in
line back then & keeps me eternally grateful now.
anyone who says that wls is easy should spend a day in your shoes.
it's work, sacrifice & trial & error.
lori h.

welcome alicia. bad complications, you mean leaks, internal
bleeding, blood clots, revisions...
btw, no regrets.
lori h.

I am 32 days out and am on a soft diet until 6 weeks. I am so bored I
don't even feel like eating. I used to be a yogurt fan, but have
eaten so much of it in the last 2 weeks just the smell of it makes me
want to you know.
Any ideas for soft diet other than the usual?
Leslie
Open RNY 6/17/03
265/231

If you want an ear full of negative experiences, visit the ossg-gone

Dear Kimberly ,
I hope beyond hope all went well for you and your surgery.. I know
it is today and hacve been pulling hasrd for you.. Audrey 3 days and
waiting.

Dear Deb,
hear you are tottally suround by the best of friends.. so ask any
kind of question you feel needs and answer to your satafaction..
Here you will no longer be alone. It is nice to have family
support, for the little pats on the back.. but here you will recieve
HUGS!! Big hugs and support all the way to surgery and far
beyond, .. I am so happy that you choose this group to join. Because
here you are family.. Here no one calls you names or points a
fingure at you or even wispers something negative to you or about
you.. SO in 31 days you are joining the loosers, WOW this is great!!
welcome to the group.. Audrey-- 3 days and waiting..

Im only 10 weeks out and so far post op life sucks, but thats suppose to get
better.
I did talk to a woman who had it done 20 years ago. She told me that it was
the best thing she had ever done for herself and that everything had gone
fine. She was around 55 or so, so she would have been in her 30s when she had
it
done.
Hope that helps some!
~ami~

I have been on just about every group asking if there is anyone who
can share an experience on a negative note. Either no one has had a
bad experience with this surgery or they are not around to talk about
it. Some may think I am crazy for even asking but....If i am going to
make this life changeing decision i want to know the goods and the
bads of it. I want to know what to expect in 5, 10, 15, years from
now. What will be going on in my body. I am getting a little
discouraged that there is no one out there who can help me. Starting
to think well maybe no one who gets this surgery lives that long.
SO I am asking if you know of anyone or are someone who i am looking
to chat with please write me, or have them write me.
I am currently on the waiting list to see the surgeon, which i was
told is a 6 month wait. In that waiting time i would like to find out
as much information as possible.
Thanks!

I haven't heard about the 30 grams in 2 hours but the max, 1/2 hours
about the protein drinks I have heard.
I'll ask at support group on Monday and see what people know.
Although harldy anyone in our group uses protein drinks as our post
op plan does not use them.
Chris D.

You need to call the surgeon and ask. Usually time release meds
don't work because they are not absorbed enough.
Chris D.

I am so sad and frustrated right now. I am almost 10 weeks post op and today
after eating one tiny bite of chicken (baked) and a few bites of mashed
potatoes, I vomitted - but only after having horrible
feel-like-Im-dying-and-wish-I-would stomach pain. My pouch still feels kind
of icky. I am so tired of
this!! I feel very foolish though. I researched this surgery very carefully
and
I was ready. Or atleast I thought I was. I honestly, naively, thought that
I wouldnt have any trouble eating per say. I thought I would eat a tiny bit,
feel full and that would be that. I thought if I followed my eating schedule
and only ate foods I was suppose to, I would be OK. Of course now I know
that
isnt true. I can eat one bite of a food I ate yesterday with no trouble, and
then suffer for hours with the same food today. I can take tiny bites and
chew and chew and chew and still get sick. All you seasoned post ops....will
this ever stop? Will I ever stop asking myself why I did this to myself? I
know I sound pitiful and I am admittedly sitting on my pity pot today. I am
just
so tired of my entire life revolving around what my pouch feels like each
day.
~ami~
LAP RNY 5-13-03

Hi All,
I am still in the beginning stages of the WLS program and expect a
winter surgery date.
I am wondering...
- Is there anyone who regrets having the surgery?
- What is the worst complication you've heard of, besides death?
- For those with small children, how long after an open procedure
do you get back to being yourself? I have lots of support, but
I'm still worried about being able to care for them myself.
I am so happy to have found this group. You all have helped me more
than you know. Sorry for the negative questions, but I want to be
sure I have covered every angle.
Thanks!
Alicia

i bet they did b/c the surgeon is the one that ordered it - i'll call right
now and see what they say - plus i don't think i have sleep apnea - it was a
split test - halfway through if i had apnea he was going to hook me to the
CPAP and they didn't so.....i'm probably screwed and will end up with ALL
these pre-op tests.
Tanya
visit our website
www.geocities.com/tanyarn96/countryside.html

hi, not sure if this will help but do a search under cancer and hair loss
from chemo - seems like in some of my studies they said if you rinse with
cold cold water you lose less - check and see and i'll try to look too.
Tanya
visit our website
www.geocities.com/tanyarn96/countryside.html

HI Folks,
My friend just had her surgery and is doing so great I called Dr.
Aguirre to schedule an open RNY bypass appt. He had Nov 20 open.
Unfortunately, my school probably won't pay me for missed days. So,
IF there is anyone out there who is going to see Dr. Aguirre between
July 24 -Aug 2 and would like to switch dates, PLEASE let me know!
Carrie

Thanks, Deb!! I really appreciate the help and information ... there's so many
conflicting things bouncing around that I sometimes I'm not sure what to
believe. :-) I don't mean to doubt you ... just looking for sources of
information.
Diana

Dear Diana,
I'm not sure where I read it, but I know they tell us at our monthly support
meeting that 30 grams is the max absorbable protein intake in a two hour
sitting and that powder stuff made into drinks only lasts 1/2 hour then it
loses its potency. Chris? Caroline? Any further info on this? If not,
I'll ask in my support group (in two weeks) and find out there.
live each day like it's your last... love like you've never been hurt...
Deb in Hazlet, NJ
"Debbie Dancer"
distal rny
September 3, 2002
386/237/160?
BMI 60/35/24?
-149
-69.5"
Angel to Bill (8/14/03), Debbie (waiting for a date) Ilene (6/26/03), Roy
(7/29/03) and Ro

My PCP prescribed my some Nexium that is 40M time release. The surgeon had
said 40 MG tablet BID. Can I use this time release at all, maybe if I open the
gel caps? -- Jody

Deb welcome to the group you have made one of the smartest decessions to go
forward with this procedure. It is awful that people have made fun of you
and treated you so rude. I have tried hard to teach my children to respect
everyone for who they are. But I see people reactions towards one and other
and it does seem there are still so many prejudice. Deb for now focus on
only positive just think how wonderful you are going to feel and look. Keep
in touch with us and ask anything at all.
RobinO-Calif
Dec 5 .2002
211-142-135

Hey Joal that is my day too. I am sitting here (impatiently I might add)
waiting for BTC to all with my surgery time. I feel like an expectant father
pacing the floors and I'm a women. LOL Boy please hurry up and call before I
bite all my fake fingernails off. LOL
Good luck on Wednesday.
Chris B.
Surgery date 7/23/03
BTC/ Columbus OH
Dr.Stelmack
Open RNY

believe it tina! fantastic job! for me, i knew & know i'd get there,
& pray i STAY there. keep it up.
lori h.

yes, this ww veteran went back, in the hopes of losing the last 3 lbs
till personal goal. a couple of folks thought i was off my rocker,
but what's new? lol. you see, i want all the hand holding/guidance
possible as i say goodbye to the old me. i take fragments from a lot
of different plans, like in the Zone i only have Splenda, no
aspartame(Equal). ww emphasizes fiber/low fat & i'm positive the
American Cancer Society wouldn't disagree.
being a critical consumer of information & influences is paramount.
my point is: take/ utilize what works for you. cuz we all have
different requirements, preferences,etc.
off my soapbox, have a progress-filled journey!
lori h.

In a message dated 7/18/2003 8:59:21 AM Pacific Daylight Time,
wlslori@... writes:
Thanks Lori, I calculated mine and I have lost 96.66%. I have been wondering
how I can figure out what percent of my extra weight I have lost. I think my
goal weight may be changing now that I am getting so close to my goal because
until now I didn't really believe that I would ever get this low.
Tina
265/149/?

hey joel. brace yourself cuz your life will never be the same(in a
good way).
here's some tried & true tips, compiled from our super duper family:
recliner:rent, borrow, buy
good slip-on slippers/robe for walking
phone #s, insurance cards/paperwork
baby wipes
a few toiletries
when you get home, keep walking & don't feel bad if you're constantly
calling the doc or patient coordinator.
log on & let us know how it went.
find out what your eating plan/supplements are. if broth is on your
plan, i made my own by boiling a chicken breast or lean turkey, hated
the canned crap.
lori h.

Hi all.
Joel here again, just awaiting Wednesday. I have myself ready and
think I am prepared. Any advice on what to bring to the hospital or
have ready at home when I get out?
Love you all and thanks for the support.
Joel
RNY OPEN
406/?/?
7/23/03

found another website, punch in how much you've lost so far & how much
you want to lose: (use the formula in the middle of the three
formulas)
http://homepages.ihug.com.au/~shane007/maths/percent.html
hope it works!
lori h.

great job, lynn. regarding the scale, here's one of my favorite
quotes, "Freedom has a thousand charms to show, that slaves however
content, never know."
lori h.

Hey Jake that is awesome news!! Congrads!!
Pamela
11/19/02
116+ lbs gone!!
Miami

Awesome news, Jake! Keep up the great work.
Diana

Hello. Its Jake from Buffalo, NY. I have not posted in quite a
while. I had my Gastric Bypass Surgery (Open) on June 5. As of
today I am down about 42 lbs. Its so exciting. I am starting to see
my muscle definition again!
Best choice I ever made was having this done!!!
Hope to hear from all of you soon!
Jake

Hey Deb
I don't know of you were referring to me, but yes, I was very sore
after surgery. I felt like a truck had hit me! But after about 4
days, the soreness turned into a nagging ache that I could easily
deal with. After about 2 weeks, it only hurt when I turned my body
certain ways, or tried to pick up something I shouldn't have. :)
Pam T

Congrats girl! I know you can't wait! My very good friend is coming
home from the hospital today, she had her surgery on Tuesday, she's
been such a trooper! It seems this is a good week for everyone :)
Hugs
Pam T

My scales don't like me either-I weigh every morning-just to keep
myself in tow and I too flucuate a pound or two but, have been stuck
going on two weeks now with the same number. It does get frustrating
but, I have made my mind up that as long as I do not gain-I am OK. In
a post yesterday, I was told that muscle weighs more than fat and if
I am exercising I could be gaining muscle-yet losing fat. So I am
going with this one just to pasify myself. As far as the hair goes-I
am losing mine also but, not as drastic as it sounds like you are. I
got a perm last week just to hide my thin spots better and my
hairdresser gave me good news. She told me I have a ton of new growth-
little sprigs all over the place. So as long as new is coming in to
replace what is falling out-I guess I will never be totally bald. I
asked her what I could do-she said nothing except keep taking the
vitamins that I am and doing the protein. She said there is nothing
any hairdresser can do-this reaction is coming from the inside so
NOTHINg you do to the outside will help. A friend of mine that had
the WLS has gotten so bad, she has bought a wig-thank GOD mine hasn't
gotten to that point yet.

Welcome Deb!
I am 42 and had my surgery 5-1/2 months ago. It's been an awesome
ride and 133 lbs later, it just gets better and better. I am 5'9 and
started at 442 lbs, so I definitely know your weight woes.
I am so sorry to hear of your lack of family support and compassion.
Have you even just let go and tell them how much they hurt you?
Maybe they just don't realize it. If they are somewhat overweight, I
guarantee you they are facing the fact that they may have to go the
same route some day. They don't want to see how successful you will
be, because then they have to face reality. If you can muster it,
tell them you are going ahead of if they don't have anything positive
to say, to keep it to themselves and to quit the name calling. I
know you are their mother and feel you can't call them names back but
it might wake them up. All you have to do is get through to one of
them and the rest might fall in place.
My mom was the only one I told at the start. She was scared but
supportive as she knew I could not continue on the train I was on. I
did not want to tell my brothers at that point. It was hard for her
to say nothing but she didn't. She did talk to a few of her friends
about it, which was fine. She needed someone to talk to about her
emotions. What shocked her is how positive all her friends were.
You would think people in their 70's and 80's would see this as some
new fangled thing and "why does she need to do that". But most knew
someone who had it done and were very supportive. It helped her be
more comfortable.
Once I had insurance approval she asked if she could tell my
brothers. One of them that I thought would think it ridiculous,
surprised me and drove a couple hours to come see me in the
hospital. Shocked the heck out of me. I thought my oldest brother
would think it was drastic etc. He is into all natural everything.
Well his reaction was "thankgoodness". He said he had been so
worried that I would maybe die of a heart problem etc. The 3rd
brother was faily quiet but supportive. Two of my brothers are in
the category of being faced with maybe making a similar decision one
day. So it also was a slap in the face. My sister-in-law is one who
would greatly benefit also. Who knows, once she sees how I eat she
may have a different opinion. When she found I don't eat much for
refined carbs she was like, but their are the best. I would have
agreed before surgery, but for some reason they no longer control my
life and I also do not crave them. I have them when I want, but
because I am comfortable with post-op life I just don't focus on them
any more. When I look for food now, it's just automatically protein.
Please feel free to e-mail me as I am more than willing to be one of
your supports and offer what info I can about surgery and after
life. I live in Oshkosh, WI, so not too far from you. I don't
normally get down that way, but who knows maybe we could meet
somewhere sometime.
Just know that there will be lots of people on this website who will
gladly provide you loving support and not judge you or call you
derogatory names!
I hope you have a wonderful day!
Chris D.
5'9" Age 42 BMI 65.3
442/309/Anywhere under 250 lbs
-133 lbs as of July 17th BMI 45.6
21 before surgery, 112 after
Open RNY-150 cm, 1/2 oz pouch - Feb 3, 2003
Surgeon - Raymond Georgen, MD - Neenah, WI

In a message dated 07/17/03 10:54:14 PM Central Standard Time,

In my opinion - If you can tolerate it, you can eat it! At first try
it with the casing removed. If that works then maybe try it au
natural. I haven't eaten any, but have eaten an orange section or
two and I have been eating grapes with the skin since about 4 months
PO. Just chew very well and take small bites.
The only caution is if you are on any medications that caution
against grapefuit. Seems to interact or lessen the effect of some
meds.
Chris D.
5'9" Age 42 BMI 65.3
442/309/Anywhere under 250 lbs
-133 lbs as of July 17th BMI 45.6
21 before surgery, 112 after
Open RNY-150 cm, 1/2 oz pouch - Feb 3, 2003
Surgeon - Raymond Georgen, MD - Neenah, WI

Hi again :)
All I can say is I'd rather have temporarily thinning hair and be
thin and healthy, than have thick hair and remain fat and always
afraid of dying....
:) Caroline
www.tinyurl.com/bkld

Thanks Caroline.. Prayers, I definitely need.. (I have so many fears,
concerns, thoughts and emotions flowing through me right now.. ) I know this is
probably quite normal but I need to get my "BIG" behind into bed or I'm gonna be
dead tired by the time I reach the hospital.. Well, I'll keep you all posted
when I get out.. I'm having Open RNY, and my Gallbladder removed.. Hope I'm out
of the hospital by Monday... Later..
Kimberly Greer

Hi Lia,
My primary insurance had a similiar exclusion and unfortunately, I
found no way around it. The only think you might try doing is
following up with Walter Lindstrom's office at www.obesitylaw.com.
Wishing you luck with this!
Caroline
www.tinyurl.com/bkld

OMG Chrissy.. Of all the things you could have said.. You said my worst
post-op fear, "losing the friggin hair." Please don't tell me that.. I could
almost
back completely out hearing that.. I'm already thinning uptop and I'm
pre-op.. (Oooooh, that ryhmes..) Wow! Now I'm worried.. If you find the right
advice,
pass it along.. We can ALL use it! Thanks.. And I hope it tapers off..
COMPLETELY 4 U.. (Maybe I'm just too into looks, but come on now, WE'RE
WOMEN!!!!!)
Later..
Kimberly Greer

Thanks Pam.. I do.. (have an angel watching over me).. She's my mother..
She'll be up there throughout it all.. And if she's not angelic enough, I have
my
6 yr.old daughter praying for me.... And her prayers definitely cannot be
ignored.. lol.. "I know I'll be okay, I'm just a little nervous.." But thanks
for
your concern and support.. You can bet it's greatly been appreciated and
acknowledged.. God Bless You..
Kimberly Greer

Can we eat grapefruit??
Lindy G
LapRNY 3/20/03
Dr.Bryan Freeman,AL
230/165/100

Thanks so much....I will keep you and all others in my thoughts tomorrow. Good
Luck and I hope you all have an angle watching over you. Have a great one.
Pam
Firebon911@... wrote:
Good Luck Pam!! Glad u finally got in... Wonderful News! Wishing you
happiness and success.. And remember to hold your head up and keep your hopes
high..
Later.
Kimberly Greer

I'm glad to hear from you so I hope yours went great.You have one of
those family too.I thought I was alone about that subject.I'll keep
my head up and hope to stay in touch with you.Were you sore after
the surgery? I've had 2 c-sections it the pain kind of like that if
so I'll be fine.I was up walking only hours after that
surgery.Thanks and talk soon Deb

Hey Deb,
Boy you really have a lot of pain in your life. But Girl Friend you have come to
the right place! There are so many wonderful and supportive people here. My name
is Pam and I am from New Orleans. I am 42 years young. I am still pre-op. I
think you are doing the right thing, making your life better. I have a little
secret that works for me when my family wants to put me down. They all get the
"PAMELA RASPBERRY " sometimes it's even a little sloppy....LOL I hope this a
brought a smile to your face.
Have a great one and Keep Your Chink UP
Pam
New Orleans

I looked on their website and the high protein smoothies listed start
at 380 calories and average about 30 g's of protein and they look to
have alot of carbs and fat... Are these ok to have?

Just leafed through the ins booklet and found the exclusion which
states:
"What your program does not cover: ...treatment of obesity or morbid
obesity, including surgery and its complications, services and
supplies connected with weight loss and weight control. This
exclusion applies even if you have an illness or injury which might be
helped by weight loss."
So, I think that sums it up from their point of view...kind of harsh
sounding, but not all companies have updated their views on this type
of thing. Any more ideas would be great! Thanks again for walking me
through this so far.
~Lia in AK

I went for my first post-op appointment today and everything went great...I have
lost 27 pounds since my surgery on June 23, 2003, 4 inches around my waist and 1
inch around my hips. I was told that is good. But I was hoping for a bigger
weight lost. I told him I have not lost any in a week and a half and he told
me to weigh only once a week and I told him that was going to be hard because I
like to see what I weigh everyday. But I will try to stay off the scales and
weigh only once a week. He did tell me to start taking Vitamin E because my
skin is to dry...He told me to keep up the good work and I will go back in two
months. Just thought I would tell someone... Thanks for listening.
Lynn
281.4 / 254/ 150

My name is Deb I'm at the wt# 365 lb's at 5'7" tall.In about 31 days
I going into surgery for the surgery called Ry type Gastric
Bypass.I'm
a little worried alot about the surgery.I have so many
questions and worried that I will not lose the wt#.I'm 43 years old
have 5 children ages 9-26 years of age.I have no family support.My
family has aways made fun of my wt# and called me names.Even now
that they are older and heavier they hurt my feeling and I always
want to run and hide and cry.I've been fat or The Word I hate the
most is Obesity.The Doctor I have has been doing bypasses for over
20 years I was told and even had it done to his self.I need a friend
to help me
go through this.I have no friends were I live just people who have
hurt me and always pointing fingers and laugh at me.Love to
hear from anyone who can share their surgery info and how things
went and anything that will help me before and after the surgery.God
Bless and hope to
talk.Thanks for your time from Deb of Iowa.

Okay I'm probably falling into the trap i warn everyone else about...BUT I'm
stressing out. I've been weighing myself every day... which staying the same
weight or fluxuating doesn't bother me, I know its part of it. but my scale
has actually said i've GAIINED weight! First day, didn't think too much about
it, but this is like the 3rd day and it has only gone up not down (when i
fluxuate it goes both directions). I ahven't made any changes in my
diet...although I do realize i can eat more than i used to, although it still
isn't that
much. wearing, albeit a heavy long denim skirt, my scale said 229! (I was 223
3 days ago). its not that time of the month, so it shouldn't be that. The
few lbs aren't what bother me so much as the trend...I've put myself back on
liquids just to see if that will help... all soups today..although one had
veggies in it, but i was careful to chew chew chew like we are supposed to do.
OKay, just had to vent.
Now, my second problem. I have losing ALL MY HAIR!! I knew it was a side
effect, but I didn't think I would really lose that much. I pull it out in
handfuls (and not just little ones). I HATE washing my hair, because the
hairloss
is just awful. And brushing my hair afterwards..yuck. I am getting protein,
i don't think that is the issue. I'm just wondering if any one else has had
a problem with severe loss, and if/what they have done for it. Iam currently
using the Nioxin, which I like, and helps my hair feel more full... I had A
LOT of hair before surgery, so i was never really concerned...but when I was
washing my hair i realized how thin it really is :( Anyways, suggestions would
be appreciated :)
Chrissy
OpenRNY 02/19/03
310/229 !@#*&^$#! *sigh*

How many of you are following the water loading / meal schedule in the pouch
for dummies plan? Any tips how to execute? -- Jody

Keeping you in my prayers Kimberely :)
Caroline
www.tinyurl.com/bkld

~dances~ Woohoo ... another satisfied protein drinker! I had another one for
lunch. I actually did the money math ... I've been doing Atkins shakes and for
what two of them cost (at 40 grams of protein), I can get one smoothie (at 50
grams of protein). I'm so excited!
Diana
bofamgr2002 <gwisaac1@...
After reading the postings today about Smoothie King, I went to
their web site & found that they have one location in Phoenix & it's
real close to my home. Since I am only one week out of the hospital
I had my husband drive me there & I got one. OH MY, that was the
best Protein drink I have had. It was just like a chocolate
milkshake with 50 grams of Protein. I'm going back tomorrow. And I
have a feeling when I start driving next week it will be a daily
trip for me.
Thanks for the tip
Wendy

Lori Anne;
You know what? ME EITHER!!!!! I can't wait until that moment when I'm able
to type.. "I'm FINALLY post-op and PROUD." Although, I'm not sure how I'm going
to feel afterwards.. But soon, WE'LL all find out.. .lol.. And thanks for
keeping me in your prayers.. I think I need all the prayers I can get.. lol..
(OR
LUCK!!).
And Good Luck to the rest of you who have already began your journey, or are
currently in the process.. I wish you all very prosperous lives.. And
achievements.. (((((((((((((((((((TO ALL)))))))))))))))))))) and a good nite..
lol..
(I'm tired)..
Kimberly Greer

I don't know if it's so much of luck or prayers that we desperately need
right now... (I KNOW ONE THING FOR SURE, THE ANXIETY IS VERY INTENSE.. LOL)..
Tomorrow's the big day for all us girls! (GEAR UP!!!!) And I hope everyone has a
successful recovery.. (I'm gonna go pack my bag now..) Later.
Kimberly Greer

Good Luck Pam!! Glad u finally got in... Wonderful News! Wishing you
happiness and success.. And remember to hold your head up and keep your hopes
high..
Later.
Kimberly Greer

After reading the postings today about Smoothie King, I went to
their web site & found that they have one location in Phoenix & it's
real close to my home. Since I am only one week out of the hospital
I had my husband drive me there & I got one. OH MY, that was the
best Protein drink I have had. It was just like a chocolate
milkshake with 50 grams of Protein. I'm going back tomorrow. And I
have a feeling when I start driving next week it will be a daily
trip for me.
Thanks for the tip
Wendy
open RNY 7/8/03
272/254/145?

In a message dated 7/17/2003 4:03:11 PM Eastern Daylight Time,
zoes.mom@... writes:
Thanks for the info i will look around in the yellow pages to see if there is
one near me.
Denise

Lia,
Also if Alaska has a state Rehabilitation Office, you might try them. I
had mine done in TX through the Texas Rehabilitation Commission. Try it,
it never hurts! Happy hunting and good luck.
Tanya

I thought you guys might be interested in these guidelines. Maybe I should
amend my goal further ...
Women's Body Fat Percentage Guidelines
Essential Fat = 10-12%
Athletes = 14-20%
Fitness = 21-24%
Acceptable = 25-31%
Obese = 32%+
Men's Body Fat Percentage Guidelines
Essential Fat = 2-4%
Athletes = 6-13%
Fitness = 14-17%
Acceptable = 18-25%
Obese = 25%+

hey lia, my policy also excluded everything "obesity" related.
HOWEVER, i wasn't obese, i was morbidly obese. & everyone told me
that i would be denied(even the docs), but was approved in days.
it was still a lot of work & the road wasn't easy.
lori h.

Dear Denise,
If you have The Vitamin Shoppe local to you, they carry, or can order, the
Champion product for you. They also carry their own brand of protein (body
tech or something like that) that's very, very similar to the Champion and
costs less.
live each day like it's your last... love like you've never been hurt...
Deb in Hazlet, NJ
"Debbie Dancer"
distal rny
September 3, 2002
386/237/160?
BMI 60/35/24?
-149
-69.5"
Angel to Bill (8/14/03), Debbie (waiting for a date) Ilene (6/26/03), Roy
(7/29/03) and Ro

Well, just called the ins co and was told obesity surgery is a
standard exclusion, won't be covered at all. I guess that ends the
journey for now unless anyone has any words of wisdom. I know other
people who have ins through the State of AK also, I guess for whatever
reason there's was different though. :( Oh well, if it was meant to
be it is, if not, that's it. Thanks,
~Lia in AK

Hi Everyone! I finally feel as though I am making some kind of progress in
my journey. I went to my PCP last Thurs. and he agrees with my decision to
have WLS. He gave me a referral to the surgeon and is writing my letter of
necessity and I should be able to pick it up this week. I went to my
ob/gyn yesterday and he signed the letter that I had prepared and said I
wrote a very good letter (he's been my dr. for 15 yrs. and knows about my
struggles more than the pcp). When I got back to work, I phoned Cleveland
Clinic in Weston and told them that I had my referral and wanted to make the
appt. to see the surgeon. They had a cancellation!!! I am meeting with Dr.
Szomstein @ 8:00 a.m. Monday morning. The receptionist said I would need to
be there at 7:30 a.m. and I said "No problem"! I have my psyc. eval.
scheduled for 7/23. Things are finally moving along for me. Thanks
everyone for the support that I find on this site!
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Whats the name of that protien powder? I would sure like to have it too, ( I
work in a hospital).
Angie
Lap RNY

Hi,
I had my surgery on Tuesday 7/8 & all went well. The first day after
was hell, but each day gets better. Has any one experienced alot of
gas after surgery and does it go away? Also when I try to lay flat
in a regular bed I seem to get something that comes back up my
throat & makes me choak. Doea any body have any answers to this as
well?
I am now on protein drinks, liquids & 3 1oz. meals of pureed food.
for the next six weeks. Any meal suggestions would be appreciated.
Any words of wisdom & answer to my questions would be greatly
appreciated.
Thanks
Wendy
orny 7/8

hehe, i don't know if you meant the "butting in" to be a pun or not, but I
thought it was pretty funny :) Our newer buildings all had the plastic swivel
chairs you were talking about. I actually prayed for classes with those (as
opposed to thost stupid other desks). But they are not easy to get in and out
of, and two people sitting next to eachother can't get up at the same
time..hehe.. but I like the tables b/c they have lots of room to spread out
(which I
tend to do). Congrats on pursuing your education too! What is your major? I'm
finally free of the desks, I am attending the U of Phoenix online now and
working on my MBA in Health Care Management. So far it has been very
challenging
and a lot of work, but I like the flexibility it offers, and being able to
attend class in my pj's at 2am..hehe :) Take care and thanks for the response
to my post!! :)
Chrissy
OpenRNY 02/19/03
310/223

Oh sweetheart! I know how you feel! I had four babys, the last two were less
than a year apart and I was sooooo upset with all the weight gain, I was
miserable. I would be more than happy to send you some of my clothes (still
have the tags on em) I have lots of tops I wont be wearing anymore, sweaters,
dress clothes. Email me if you are interested...HANG IN THERE! Keep coming to
this site daily, its gonna help alot.
Your sister in wl,
Angie
SoCalif

Congrats on starting your journey. My advice is to just read read read.
Join in the group discussions (plan for Disney if you can..hehe) and just soak
up
information and most of all, work on patience. It is so hard when you know
what you want to do and then being told you have to wait. But your time will
come, and it will be worth the wait. If you have any questions along the way,
pipe up and ask! Also, it a good idea to write down any questions you have
and take them to your consult with your surgeon :)
Chrissy
OpenRNY 02/19/03
310/223

I am only 3 weeks away from my surgery and it is leaking out that I am
having the lap rny.
Some one was saying here in the office that a 55 year old had a heart
attack because of rapid weight loss, has any one ever herd such a
thing?
I am only 29 with a BMI around the 40's a lot of people are just
ignorant and insisting I can do this one my own butt I cant.
any inspiration would be grateful
Edpi M. Rigual
Buildings & Grounds
Ossining Public Schools
190 Croton Avenue
Ossining NY 10562
(914) 941-7700 Ext 339

Hey everybody,
i was just wondering where you all bought your protein shakes. I went to GNC
and looked but they were mighty expensive. Like $34 for 20. Is that a good
price. I have had the Vita Trim shakes and they were good but they were given
to me and don't know where they got them from.
Denise

Hi,
I am currently on the waiting list to see the surgeon to have GBS. I
have heard of so many success stories. I know this may sound weird
but i am wanting to hear from people who have had some problems. I
want to know what to expect 5, 10, 15 years from now.
Can anyone help?
Thanks,
Pokey757

Reminder Reminder from the Calendar of Gastric_Bypass_Family
Homestead Hospital wls meeting
Wednesday July 9, 2003
7:00 pm - 8:00 pm
This event repeats on the second Wednesday of every month.
The next reminder for this event will be sent in 1 day, 4 minutes.
Event Location: downtown Homestead, off 11 St
Notes:
email wlslori@...

Congrads on getting approved!!
Every surgeon is different in what they require.
Pamela
11/19/02
116+ lbs gone!!
Miami

Today I called my surgeons office (Dr. I) today to see if he got the
letter from my PCP. I got a chance to chat with him. He got my
letter from my PCP that if he sees that I lost some weight that he
would say yes to the surgery. However, my PCP has some reservations
on it. So Dr. I and I decided that I would continue seeing the
nutritionist on an routine basis. I would get regular documentation
that I have seen a nutritionist. In the meantime Dr. I will send my
info to the insurance company. If I get approved by my surgery and I
can convience my PCP that I should have it done then yes Dr. I will go
ahead with it. If not Dr. I wont do it. My question is should I
change PCP's to Dr. Christidis who is accepting new patients and is
all for this procedure? Maybe I should just stay with my existing PCP
and go to the Nutritionist. I dont know what to do! Even Carl is out
of suggestions. He doesnt like the PCP either. I am so fustrated and
sad and cant stop crying! I am afraid I will never beable to have this
surgery!!!!
--
Peace,
Heidi L. Fuehrer

Well, gang...this is it! Tomorrow I go in for surgery! I am soooo
excited!
Today, well that's another story. I took my bowel prep about an
hour or so ago, and it has defintely kicked in! Talk about "flying
shits" Tanya! I was cracking up over that until I got them too!
I'm telling you, if this is anything like dumping, sugar will never
touch these lips again!
I've picked up my meds, and post-op foods (liquids), so all I have
left to do is finsh packing. I really am a lot calmer than I
thought I would be. I mean, I am very excited, but I thought I'd be
in a panic by now. Not at all. Can't wait to get home and get
started on this new life.
Kimbery Greer-- I know you're right after me on the 18th. Best
wishes to you. I'll be thinking about you in the hospital. I think
there is somebody else on the 18th too...right? I am so sorry, I
can't remember right now if it was on this board or another. I'll
just pray for ALL my WLS friends who are under knife as the days go
by.
See you all when I get back!
-Gina

yep, just got off the phone with di, she had a tt this morning. she
sounds great, not in pain or groggy, just darn uncomfortable.
they showed her a picture of the skin, she couldn't believe the
amount.
yay for empowerment & yay for good surgeons!!
gotta run, have a class tonight until 10:30.
lori h.

Hi Adrienne,
Great good luck to you on the 14th.
Hi Lori Anne,
I love Disney and I've gone every year for the past 4 years and I'm going
again in November (1st to the 8th). I'm pulling my daughter out of school
for 2 days -- it's election day and teacher convention week in New Jersey,
so she'll only miss 2 days and I can teach her the stuff they'll cover
anyway -- got my teaching certificate in '77 even though I don't really use
it). I think your plan for next year is wonderful. What week are you
thinking of? I know having to work around school schedules is difficult
because that means we're traveling at prime prices, but what the heck.
Maybe I'll go again!
live each day like it's your last... love like you've never been hurt...
Deb in Hazlet, NJ
"Debbie Dancer"
distal rny
September 3, 2002
386/237/160?
BMI 60/35/24?
-149
-69.5"
Angel to Bill (8/14/03), Debbie (waiting for a date) Ilene (6/26/03), Roy
(7/29/03) and Ro

Reminder Reminder from the Calendar of Gastric_Bypass_Family
Homestead Hospital wls meeting
Wednesday July 9, 2003
7:00 pm - 8:00 pm
This event repeats on the second Wednesday of every month.
Event Location: downtown Homestead, off 11 St
Notes:
email wlslori@...

Reminder Reminder from the Calendar of Gastric_Bypass_Family
FL Medical Center meeting
Tuesday July 15, 2003
6:30 pm - 7:30 pm
This event repeats on the third Tuesday of every month.
The next reminder for this event will be sent in 5 days, 4 minutes.

Dear Angie,
I use the Champion brand Pure Whey Stack powder. My favorite is the
chocolate. I just use one scoop, add 8 oz. of milk and 6 oz. of water and
it's good for 30 grams of protein. I mix with a spoon and, if the protein
floats to the top I skim it off. Sometimes I add some DaVinci syrup to it
and for some reason that makes it mix really creamy. I order it online from
muscledawg.com -- It's on sale this week, so a 5 lb. jar should run,
including shipping, $30. I find it tastes like Nestles Quick. If you're
not sure if you'll like it, you can order samples from vitalady.com but I'm
not sure the samples are the same product or not. They also sell a 2.2 lb.
jar and that one, with shipping, is around $26 or so. $4 more for an extra
3 lbs. seemed like a good deal to me once I tasted it and knew I would use
it.
live each day like it's your last... love like you've never been hurt...
Deb in Hazlet, NJ
"Debbie Dancer"
distal rny
September 3, 2002
386/237/160?
BMI 60/35/24?
-149
-69.5"
Angel to Bill (8/14/03), Debbie (waiting for a date) Ilene (6/26/03), Roy
(7/29/03) and Ro

I went back to the doctor today and was slapped in the face with more
bad news. Turns out that the cat scan they did Last friday(before
the 4th) picked something up. I have yet another leak!!! As some of
you know I have been fighting a staff infection in my incision. It
leaks fulid all the time. The doctor said that what I have been
drinking has been leaking out my infection site and thats why it's
not getting any better. So to fix it, I will be on tube feeding ONLY
for the next 3 weeks. Nothing by mouth! The doc says that way it
will form scar tissue around the leak and seal it. I hate that I did
this to myself, but as everyone says it's better than an early
grave. Hey, at least they don't have to cut me back open.
Chow for now,
Jayme
Anyone else have this many problems? Would love to hear from ya!
TheGaymanFamily@...

Not all hair loss is a result of dietary insufficiencies. Sometimes it just
happens. Thats great you haven't had that problem though.
Chrissy

Hi guys. This is going to sound really weird but I want to know, for
all of you that snored before your surgery, did any of you quit
immediately following? I used to snore like crazy and it drove my
husband nuts but since surgery, he says that I haven't snored at all
and also that my loud breathing (which used to be really heavy even
in sleep) has virtually stopped. Told me that the other night he had
to put his hand on my chest to make sure I was still alive my
breathing was so quiet. Anyone else?
Tanya

No, I dont know the Clark family....and I live practically next door in
Monrovia!
Are the in the wls family?
Angie
SoCalif

I would have danced a jig and giggled all day long...HOW AWESOME!
Angie

I am having trouble with my gastric by pass-you see I have gastroparesis
(paralysis stomach) and a malrotated colon prior to the surgery. He said
this surgery would help my weight and my Gastroparesis-well guess it hasn't
I can only intake 8 oz of ice chips a day without getting sick. Surgery
was on June 11-2003. Now the surgeon has scheduled a UGI with Small bowel
follow through which requires an intake of 16+oz within 5 minutes. I called
the doctor back and he said it has to be down because of my continued
stomach cramps and nausea. How am I suppose to do this test without getting
sick? I called the hospital and they said if I can't drink it in 5 min the
test is useless. I've talk to the nurse 6 times today and she still insist
that the doctor has said there is no way out of this test. HELP!!!!
Cindy/VA
244/200/130

Sounds like you had some extra fear in that roller coaster ride! I'm so
sorry you had to experience that! The last time I went to six flags was years
ago
and although i was overweight, i wasn't at my top weight. I never thought
about not fitting on a ride, but when i would ride roller coasters with my neice
and nephew i was scared because they were so small trying to ride in the same
car as me, and the bar was soo roomy o them just to fit on me. I was more
scared for them. The most terrifying experience I had, was at Great America in
Cali, I was riding that boat ride, the revolution or something...it does 360
revolutions and sometimes it hangs upside down for quite a while and you kinda
have to lean with everyone to get it going... wellw e were stuck upside down
and i SWEAR i heard my harness pop... NOT something you want to hear hanging 3
stories off the ground upside down looking at all the mechanics unerneath you
knowing the boat would run you right over...hehe needless to say, i made it
throughthe ride, but i have never been on it again!
chrissy
open rny 02/19/03
310/224

I lost my best friend by making this decision and having the surgery done. Some
people (as with AA changes) just cant handle it. To some, there is much comfort
in others being downcast, having a disability or being addicted. When that
comfort is taken away, its over. I told very few people about my upcoming RNY,
99% of them were against it. My strongest base of support came from post op
friends. Not only your body is going to change, your relationships will too. If
it takes that for me to be healthier and thinner.....so be it.
Angie
Lap RNY
SoCalif

Since I've already shot off my big mouth and posted I thought I
should maybe say hi and introduce myself. I'm a single 47y/o male
from sunny southern California that underwent an open (non-
laparoscopic) Distal Gastric Bypass in March of 2003. The distal
procedure differs from the standard RNY in that it leaves more of
the stomach intact, including the exit valve at the base of the
stomach. This is to allow a more normal meal and
eliminate `dumping'. On the other hand more of the small intestine
is bypassed to prevent the absorption of fats leading to a
dependence on vitamin tablets for vitamins A & D. Oh well, trade-
offs have to be made.
So far in four months I've dropped over 60 lbs and have reached the
point of needing a bit of exorcize to drop weight at the speed I
want. I've also rediscovered the joy of bicycle riding, averaging 3-
4 miles a day. I feel 15 years younger and my type II diabetes is
pretty much history.
Anyway best of luck to all of you!
Steve

It sure is cheaper than the MET Rx I have been using!.....gonna have to give it
a try.
Thanks!
Angie
Lap RNY
So Cal

Hey All,
My name is Pam. I am 42 and in New Orleans, LA. I am waiting for a
surgery date. I have my insurance's blessing. It's driving me crazy
because I am so ready to be on the losing side of life..I have
started getting everything ready at home. I have been reading
anything and everything I can get my hands on. I just wanted to say
Hi and I am reading...LOL
Have A Great One!
Pam

I knew I would never get the support I neede from my family so I just didn't
tell them. My dh knows and my 2 closes friends know and that is it. Everyone
else just thinks I went into gall bladder surgery 2 months ago. I started
telling family members that I went on a diet a month before my surgery date. My
folks are teachers so we only see them during summer and winter break. I just
saw them for the first time 3 weeks ago they are so "proud" of me since I have
lost 60 plus pounds. I wish they would be "proud" of me because the way I raise
my kids, run my house or for some other reason then the superficial you look so
good. They would be shocked to find out I weighed close to 289. I am 5"6 and
have a big chest so I have always looked skinner then I actually weighing if
that makes any sense. Anyway I didnt want to hear the negative comments, be
judged or any of the other stuff, so I just didn't say a word and I have no
regrets about it!
Mel

Yeah, that's something I have always said to my husband.. that I will
make sure my kids know that I love them regardless of how they look,
or who they turn out to be.. they could be fat, thin, straight, gay,
smart, or less than.. and I want to make sure that I let them know
how much they are loved. I think the one good thing I have learned
from that experience is that I am much much more open minded in
regards to people's beliefs than they were... no way in heck would my
parents have a homosexual friend.. some of my best friends just
happen to be gay... no way would my parents go to dinner with someone
they didn't see as a social equal (for looks, or for other reasons) I
don't care.. So, I think it's made me a better person.
But yes! I love Divine Secrets!!!! Great movie!!
I know that, God willing, I won't always be the perfect mother.. but
if I can give my kids the ability to look beyond the 1st glance and
see people for who they are, I will have succeeded..
Trish

I feel you Trish. Have you seen the movie or read the book Divine secrets of
the Yaya sisterhood ? Thats kind of like me and my Mom. I think at the
end you are supposed to say, yes at times the Mom had been a terrible Mom, but
also at times the Mom had a terrible Mom, and our terrible days and moments are
not our whole selves. I have told my sister that I just hope to be less
crazy than my Mom and I hope my kids can be less crazy than me. Certain days
and
weeks I had a terrible Mom. I've been a terrible Mom, but I believe and hope
that its only been on certain hours and days. Maybe my kids can be terrible
parents only on certain minutes and hours. Weight is certainly a huge issue
where the terrible in people comes out. That is one thing I have kept totally
off limits with my 18 year old. By the time I was 15 or 16 my Mom was
hassling me about my weight. I never say a word to my 18 year old about her
size,
good, bad, or indifferent. I couldn't do her like my Mom did me because at 16 I
weighed up to 145 and my Mom at that time weighed about 125. My daughter
weighs way way less than me. But I would never ever want to do that to her even
if she weighed more than I do or even if whatever. -- Jody
In a message dated 07/09/03 6:46:03 AM Central Standard Time,
reev7056@... writes:

You all have made a LOT of sense to me. So what if I don't have a husband, so
what if I'm not a parent, I still can go to Disney and have a wonderful time.
So can someone inform me WHEN we are all suppose to meet down there? I live
in Indiana and need to make plans :)
Kimmie

Hey every one I got my approval for surgery I am on my way I cant wait
now I am so freaking nervous. Itcis really hitting me now.
Ok let me focus on somthing else could you guy;s PLEASE help me pre
pare
what should I do and buy before August 7
any help would be so greatful
Edpi M. Rigual
Buildings & Grounds
Ossining Public Schools
190 Croton Avenue
Ossining NY 10562
(914) 941-7700 Ext 339

Hello sorry about that I give you all the info about me and forget the time
frame I had surg lap on Dec 5th 2002 and have lost 69 pounds most of which I
lost in the first 4 months now I am having to work for it more.
Robin O- Calif
211-142-135
Dec 5 2002

Hello Angie know they are not a wls family I wish I could assure my sister
so she would look into this for herself she has a serious weight problem.
Maybe someday I thought you might know them they are very active in the
community.
Robin O- Calif.

Good Day Mel the problem with the shopping is that before you know it your
size will change again so you need to be careful if you buy to much !!!! But
isnt it fun ???
Robin O - Calif.

Good Day Toi , I really could relate to your post about your sister I also
have a sister that needs help badly however she has not made the choice she
is scared and this is ok this is such a personal decession and one should be
certain. Everytime she sees me maybe once every 6 weeks as she is S. Calif
and I am Central Calif. She is so happy for me but I can see she is
thinking. I pray to God she will come to some kind of terms with herself.
Robin O- Calif

New to the site.
Took a look at the posts the past week and it seems that peoples
postings get repeated often. Is there a way to just scan the
Subjects? It takes me hours to read through emails or each individual
post because of the redundancies.
Also, I am getting thousands of emails. I checked the box in the
profile not to receive emails. How do you stop it for good?
Open RNY 4/28. Lost weight until 6/9/03, then no weight loss since
then (4 weeks). Is this unusual? I'm getting about 60 gm protein and
few carbs and about 800 cla a day. Take the vitamins,b12 sublingual,
tums for calcium.
I am extremely tired and have zero energy! Any suggestions

Congrats on the beginning of your new life.
Ask your doctor if he or or she has a list.
Things that I needed
1) chewable vitamins
2) pepside complete ac
3) soup no chunks-- Trader Joe's had good soups.
I did not need clothes for the hospital. I was to tired to change.
Ask the hospital for they have large gowns for you. I am sure there are other
things you need.
Best of luck Lenny
Bayisde New York
http://www.accountant-city.com/mandel/

Ok family, I have a question....For those of you that have had
gallbladder trouble. What does it feel like and where is the pain?
Pamela
11/19/02
116+ lbs gone!!
Miami

I HAVE JUST BEEN APPROVED FOR THE R & Y , AND JUST MET THE SURGEON. HE IS
ENCOURAGING ME TO CONSIDER THE LAP BAND INSTEAD OF THE R&Y.
HAS ANYONE OUT THERE HAD IT DONE OR KNOW THE SUCCESS RATE, ETC.
THANKS, BETH

Congrats on the weight lose and new life! I wanted to thank you for explaining
the differences in the surgeries. I have always wonder but never asked. Is
there a reason why that procedure was selected instead of the regular RNY?
Just curious.
Cindy
Nor Cal
Cindy

Jackie sounds like to me you can deal with all your issues you are lucky
your on the right track.
God Bless You
Robin O - Calif

Dear Kim,
I get my posts in digest form and I just finished reading one digest that
was mostly you and Jody going back and forth. I don't know where the thread
started, but I found the topic of family and friends lack of support and
fear of change fascinating. Thanks for posting all the stuff you do.
live each day like it's your last... love like you've never been hurt...
Deb in Hazlet, NJ
"Debbie Dancer"
distal rny
September 3, 2002
386/237/160?
BMI 60/35/24?
-149
-69.5"
Angel to Bill (8/14/03), Debbie (waiting for a date) Ilene (6/26/03), Roy
(7/29/03) and Ro

Well I finally got my date... it is Oct. 13th! I am really excited now. Dawn
in Kansas

Edpi yeahhhhhhh a date Aug 7th how very exciting - Life is good.
Robin O - Calif

Okay well I am home from my PAT's and I thing everything is a go still. We are
having a lot of storms in Ohio which is causing power surges everywhere. So I
sat for over an hour in the exam room waiting for the doctor because the power
surges had cause the lab machines to go crazy. But the PAT's where painless and
easy so don't get too worked up about them. As usual everyone at BTC in
Columbus was great and very nice. Well only 2 weeks till I am in loserville.
Can't wait!
Chris B.
BTC Groveport
dr. Stelmack
July 23, 2003

Wolfie thank you for your response about my sister I know you are right.
However I love her so much and I am afraid of what will happen if she does
not have surg she is peobably 5'5 and 350 plus just a quess I would not ask
. Pray she will see the light to a new happy healthy body. She is a
wonderful person and has a wonderful family.
Robin O - Calif
211-142-135
Dec 5 2002

Hello Caroline,
I'm going to gush a little bit here, but I am in complete aaahhh of you. You
are a wealth of information and I enjoy reading your posts because I always
come away with something. For instance, I am going to order a polar bottle. I
checked it out on Ebay and it looks soooo cool.
Thanks,
Julie

Hello everyone! I hope everyone had a nice fourth. Today at Curves I
weighed myself (I was a little apprehensive as it's that time of the month for
me)
and according to their doctors scale I weigh 279, which is a 72 pound weight
loss!!! Next friday I have an appointment, so I'll get an official weight then
(as well as my first blood test since the surgery).
I'd just thought I would share with people "family" that understands the joy
of weight loss.
Take Care
Julie
Open RYN 4-7-03
351/279/???

Hi! My name is Kristi. I live in MN. I had gastric bypass (lap) on
September 26, 2002. Never in my life had I been so nervous and excited
about anything.
In 1999 I had thyroid cancer and gained a ton of weight, which I could NOT
afford to gain in the first place. I tried to lose it but you know how
that goes. Being the mother of 4 children and NEVER being comfortable to go
ANYWHERE with them, I decided I needed to do something. Just once I would
like to take these awesome kids to the beach and actually swim with them.
(of course that was only the beginning) Being overweight was running my
life. I HATED it.
My surgery went well. Of course I was selective about telling people. I
figured I'd make the decision whether or not to tell as the time came. My
oldest daughter (15) was so very supportive of and excited for me. Well the
first week I lost 12 pounds. Needless to say that was encouraging. The
weeks went along with daily weight loss...until October 26th. Exactly a
month to the day of my surgery.
On that horrible day, my 15 year old daughter was killed in a car accident.
My world could have easily ended right then and there. No longer did the
surgery matter....why would it. She was a big part of the reason I wanted
to have it. Anyways, due to depression, I quit eating. My weight loss
slowed tremendously. Frankly, I didn't even care. As the months passed, I
started to eat more and the pounds started coming off again. Physically I
was feeling better than I had in years.
Now for the reason I need help... Again my weight loss has STOPPED. As a
matter of fact, I have gained. I am scared to death. I have noticed an
increase in my appetite, I have also noticed that I can eat more food, and
that I am hungry sooner between meals than I have been in the past. I wake
in the middle of the night feeling like I am starving to death. I eat
animal crackers or dry granola by the handful when this happens. And I am
not just waking one time in the night, I am doing this all night long. Some
nights I see every hour.
I am not sure what to do. Its hard to know if this is depression or if I
have failed my surgery or what. I do know that I have VERY bloated
stomachaches almost daily, and I feel extremely gassy (is that a word?!) I
am almost afraid to go to the DR. I do however have an app. scheduled for
the end of the month.
Does anything I have told you sound familiar? Anyone?? Will I be my big
fat self again before long? I have only lost 70 lbs since my surgery almost
10 months ago. I still have about 38 lbs to go according to the "ideal
weight" chart.
My heart is so heavy.
Please help if you can.
Thank you so much.
~Kristi

Two weeks post op from my gastric Bypass and I have dropped from 336
to 304 and everything is infection free and no leaks. Just followed
the doc's advice and the nutrisionist's directions. Plus I have been
snagging ideas from this group :). All in all I am glad that I
elected to have this surgery performed. Who would've thought...32
pounds in 2 weeks?

I would like to say hello everyone of you and thank you for the
inspiration each of you are.
I Just finshed reading the seattletimes and maybe i should not have i
was going for a consult on july 28th and i am not sure i want to now
after reading eveything they went through. Is it really that bad? i
have 4 kids to come to and own my own business i don't need to be
laid up any longer than i have to be .. please help ease the fear
that was not here till today .
thank you
Peggy

In a message dated 7/8/2003 8:32:45 AM Central Standard Time,

Today I received a copy of my psych eval from the psycholigist today. I'm
having problems trying to decide if it is in my favor or not. Any ideas on how
to tell which it is before I send it off to my surgeon?
Debbie
Northern Minnesota
Pre-Op Lap RNY 9/15/03
Current Weight 269 lbs.